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I personally don't know. A bit confused coz everything can happen in the heat of the moment but it's nice to stay a virgin till you get married. Virginity is something that's totally ours.
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What a person wishes to do to their body is their own business, and nobody has the right to tell them otherwise. Unless, of course, it harms another. It's as simple as that, though it does sound very Libertarian. As long as both individuals are willing, then there should be no authority to tell them otherwise or limit what they may do.
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Sex before marriage is a dirty, dirty sin. Even discussing this is making me feel all grotty. This is disgusting, the mods should delete this thread...
lol you're an idiot.
i think sex before marriage is fine. it's a stupid religious thing. what if you don't want to get married?
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i think that you should do whatever feels comfortable to you. Though I don't think that you should let anybody pressure you in to having premariatal sex, just becasue they want to.
First off, i agree with RNarcisism completely that what you do with your body is your business, and want to add that as with anything else- its your own life, so the way you choose to live it is all up to you and noone else. However, i disagree with Jellybean saying that not having sex before marriage is "a stupid religious thing". i know plenty of atheists who are virgins
Basically it all comes down to what you believe. Personally, i want to wait, because everybody who i've talked to so far said they either regretted their decision to have sex before marriage, got dumped by the guy right after and couldnt get over him, or had some other issues thus noone was too excited about giving up their virginity before they met the person that truly meant something in their life (hence marriage).
I can see where one wouldnt care about giving up their virginity, because in the end its just something natural that happens, that society has put norms upon- BUT YOU have to figure out what YOU are comfortable with and know that you're going to have to deal with the consequences and noone else.
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My opinion on the issue shifts itself annoyingly and often...
Not so much with the marriage thing, I am all for the sex before marriage thing! (if YOU feel you WANT to)
but when is the right time? Do you need to have a great emotional attatchment?
I feel that love as a whole is talked up WAY to much...I mean love is great, its a beautiful thing, but in so many movies they just "know" when its "right" and it all works out, in so many songs it is held in such high esteem, but when you truly reflect on it or look at those around you who are "in love" I really don't think it's always all that.
Sex in the media is either presented as "a bit of fun" or as this really special wonderful meningful, be all end all thing...And I don't know if it is. I don't want to have sex with randoms....I do want to care about the person, but it doesn't necessarily mean they have to be "the one" I think I would rather have had sex with more than one person...
Deciding that you wont have sex before marriage seems like you hold sex in the high esteem we have presented to us...but that leads alot open to disappointment.
I don't know, I want sex to be a wonderful thing...I WANT it to. But I don't think I can actually believe it anymore.
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alright sex before marriage i think is fine... sure i am a catholic, i have had sex. but its not a sin. religion isnt as strict on these things anymore so i okay i dont think having sex before you get married is a wrong thing. people have their own fews and beliefs and ur not going to hell if you have SEX!
I was brought up as a Roman-Catholic and the religion's belief is no sex before marriage.
I personally think that it's nice to have sex when you get married but I guess if you're in a long-term relationship and BOTH love each other and willing to do it, I guess it's ok...
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