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Originally Posted by lost_girl1
Sorry if i was argumentative before in my earlier posts but this is just a very serious subject.
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Don't worry about it.
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Originally Posted by lost_girl1
My friend who got raped and is now pregnant is also bulimic so i do no what you mean about being not mentally ready to bring up a baby.If people are given the right help and support they should be fine.
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What kind of help and support? And how is that enough to ensure their well being?
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Originally Posted by lost_girl1
She chose to keep the baby and give it life. In my oppinion i think abortion is completely wrong but i do understand what you are saying, in some situations it is better not to bring the baby into this world at all.
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How is the situation right now? Does she pay bills? If not, when she does, will she still be able to manage that, manage the baby, and manage a job?
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Originally Posted by lost_girl1
I think that all babies should have the right to live. Why should we dispose of a fetus becasue it may have a hard life. It also may not have a hard life and it could be adopted by loving parents who are willing to sacrifice anythin for a child.
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That's what's called a "What if?" situation. What if Old Testament laws apply and we should be stoning people on Sunday? What if the Treaty of Versailles was never forged? In these instances, you must weigh one situation with the other. You can't automatically assume that, just because a better situation is possible, it is worth it.
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Originally Posted by lost_girl1
At the end of the day its the mothers choce of what she wants to do. So unless we are in thats situation we should judge them.
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"Why only the women? Do you not believe that there should be collaboration with the father as well? Or, in the event of rape, collaboration with whoever else is available?
What if the woman is mentally unbalanced? If so, she would not have a clear judgement. She could very much go against the best wishes of the child and cause more harm.".
